tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-100486242024-03-06T20:54:15.618-08:00Journeys with JoodJourneys: of the mind, heart, soul. Also, pack your bags, grab your passport, and hit the road. Politics, art, travel, humor, meanderings, whatever comes to mind.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.comBlogger775125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-52439343906743002282011-02-07T11:01:00.000-08:002011-02-07T11:05:59.110-08:00Jane Harmon to step down<a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/nation/wire/sns-ap-us-congress-harman-resignation,0,7281696.story">Jane Harmon leaving Congress</a> to become the next President of the Woodrow Wilson International Center for Scholars. I'm sort of surprised, but it's quite a prestigious position. So, once it's done and official, Governor Jerry Brown has 14 days to call a special election - perhaps finally Marcy Winograd will win the seat as a true progressive. Just hoping is all.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-66722685263772806382011-02-01T06:13:00.000-08:002011-02-01T06:15:32.718-08:00Start Close InSTART CLOSE IN<br /> <br />Start close in,<br />don't take the second step<br />or the third,<br />start with the first<br />thing<br />close in,<br />the step you don't want to take.<br /> <br />Start with<br />the ground<br />you know,<br />the pale ground<br />beneath your feet,<br />your own<br />way of starting<br />the conversation.<br /> <br />Start with your own<br />question,<br />give up on other<br />people's questions,<br />don't let them<br />smother something<br />simple.<br /> <br />To find<br />another's voice<br />follow<br />your own voice,<br />wait until<br />that voice<br />becomes a<br />private ear<br />listening<br />to another.<br /> <br />Start right now<br />take a small step<br />you can call your own<br />don't follow<br />someone else's<br />heroics, be humble<br />and focused,<br />start close in,<br />don't mistake<br />that other<br />for your own.<br /> <br />Start close in,<br />don't take the second step<br />or the third,<br />start with the first<br />thing<br />close in,<br />the step you don't want to take.<br /> <br /><br />~ David Whyte ~<br /> <br />(River Flow)DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-66035928241112987812010-12-28T11:44:00.000-08:002010-12-28T11:47:46.392-08:00I want to go to the North Pole<a href="http://www.blogyourwaytothenorthpole.com/entries/64">I want to go to the North Pole.</a> Seriously, I do. I want to be the official blogger on this expedition cruise, and need your support. I'm way low in the standings, so please go to the link, sign up, vote for me, and then tell all your friends to vote for me too. I might take one of you with me.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-57456355624321395582010-12-24T11:17:00.000-08:002010-12-24T11:23:03.851-08:00There's also my other blog, all travelWould love some traffic there, if anyone's still checking in here. Lost my political voice for a while. Might be coming back. I'm mad as hell about a lot of things, but not sure how to voice it anymore. But the travel thing is good.<br /><br />It's called <a href="http://walkaboutbydesign.blogspot.com/">Walkabout by Design</a> and would love your visits. Happy holidays.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-5666783929184334572009-11-17T10:33:00.000-08:002009-11-17T10:40:42.952-08:00I have fantastic friendsSo, last night at my Monday Women's Drive Through Meeting, my peeps just poured the love on me. One gal gave me a check to cover the December Cobra payment. Two others stuffed cash in my hand - and while I was crying, another gal came over to me and said that the day after I told them I'd been fired for insubordination, SHE got fired. For insubordination. I stopped crying because it was so flipping funny.<br /><br />Okjimm, you're right - plan the days. Network. I'm sending out resumes daily, have been since it happened. I've been talking to everyone, from unemployment to attorneys to travel people - just putting it out there, and it's not just me. I've been looking daily to see if they've started hiring again at the place, and it appears that I was just part of the November/December housecleaning that they do every year. They'll post again in January. It sucks, but oh well.<br /><br />And it appears that I qualify for the reduction in Cobra payments that Obama signed into law last February: as I am not eligiable for any other kind of health coverage, and have no income, I qualify for an 80% reduction in my payment - so the check my friend gave me will actually cover 3 months of Cobra. Full benefits, too. And if I have to move back to Chicago, I'm willing. Not happy, but willing.<br /><br />These are tough times. But at least I'm nearly at my goal weight, and my hair looks good, you know? It's all about looking good, not feeling good...DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-47170835144455479752009-11-16T11:03:00.001-08:002009-11-16T11:20:54.118-08:00Depression would be a step upSeriously, I have become immobilized. I can't seem to function well at all. In August, 2008, when I left SlavesRUs Travel, it was on my terms and I knew the risks. I managed to stay afloat but it was difficult. Eventually I began working at MicroManaged Cruises, and was doing well - catching up on debt, getting ahead, and doing my job very well. I felt some degree of hope.<br /><br />And then, Friday, November 6, 2009. I was fired for insubordination. Why? Because I was frustrated that the slackers got rewarded and people like me, who actually answered the phones, were punished. Let me explain:<br /><br />MicroManaged Cruises is a Call Center. Reservations Agents are paid a salary and earn commission, but the commission is based upon a very peculiar two-fold system. That system makes people afraid to answer the phone. Here's how it works: to earn commission, you must sell a minimum of $250,000 gross each month. For me, that's a slow week. The second part of the system is that you must convert 30% of the calls that come in on the "new call" line into bookings.<br /><br />So, if an existing booking comes in on the new line, it counts against you. If a brochure request comes in on the new line, it counts against you. If a caller calls in looking for a bus trip to Arkansas, it counts against you. I had a person call in who only spoke Russian, which I don't - could not communicate. It counted against me.<br /><br />The slackers in the office manipulate the phone system to stay off the phone queue: they put people on hold for an hour while they check Facebook, Twitter, and text their friends. They call Travel Agents they work with to chat about the Twilight Saga, and how they can't wait for the new movie. They avoid calls.<br /><br />On Thursday, Nov 5, my co-worker was on the phone from 5 PM until 7 PM, on one call, chatting with a Travel Agent about a particular actor she'd had a crush on since she was 11. I ended a call and took myself out of phone queue to send an email to a client. My supervisor asked me to get out of revision and take a call - I said sure, as soon as I finish the email. The Director came to my desk, told me to get out of revision - I copped an attitude, but did it. And yes, it was an existing call on the new line. Meanwhile, Slacker Girl is still chatting away.<br /><br />I finish the call, phone rings again, and it is another existing on the new line. I put the agent on hold and walked over to the supervisor and expressed upset that my coworker was avoiding calls - the supervisor told the director I was yelling at her. The director called me into her office and said that I was wrong. Meanwhile, coworker has moved on to the Twilight movies, same call.<br /><br />And then, on Friday, I was fired. For insubordination. For doing my job.<br /><br />It is 11 AM, and I am still in my pjs. I can't seem to function. I feel defeated. My Cobra payment is going to be $451 per month, and I have no income. My unemployment is not enough to cover my mortgage. I feel humiliated, and unable to move. <br /><br />So, now what? In this economy, now what? I'm 61, no savings, negative equity in my home, debt, now what? <br /><br />I am so bloody sad.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-26671995897165757722009-11-06T19:00:00.000-08:002009-11-06T19:04:24.176-08:00Well. Back to the drawing boardSo, apparently, I am not suited to work in a company which micromanages employees. <br /><br />Me: "Please, Ms. Supervisor, may I sign out to go to the restroom?" <br />Supervisor: "No, Diva, you cannot. There are too many calls waiting."<br />Me: "Actually, Ms Supervisor, you legally can't tell me no, and it's rather humiliating to have to ask."<br />Supervisor: "You seem to go to the restroom a lot. Try not to drink so much water."<br /><br />It seems they think I don't respond well to being told what to do and when to do it. So, back to square one.<br /><br />Will probably get to visit folks again, assuming there's anybody still out there.<br /><br />XXOODivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-63775001283339842202009-07-05T19:03:00.000-07:002009-07-05T19:05:46.166-07:00GaspThought I'd poke my head in and see what's around. Completely forgot about the previous post - and here it is July, months later... Working still. Barely staying afloat financially. Still, grateful to be working.<br /><br />Visiting my granddaughter and daughter this week. Life has sweet moments. Just so far from being angry.<br /><br />Saw Public Enemies, was actually underwhelmed. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. XXOO, Diva Jood.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-1236505755869763632009-02-21T05:00:00.000-08:002009-02-21T05:00:01.497-08:00Happy Birthday, Alan Rickman<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMdoww6HI2KYyei7yOn7WgfKr8JBLcqvLFkf5E31ZeVlOfg-8J-2cA3fneot74fkBEK8t87djjRmeZIPmMiQWDrkilhJaaYdY5SvYv500PwCacbQ5esVqjPCqVl3PdoDGUXmkB/s1600-h/Rickman+portrait.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMdoww6HI2KYyei7yOn7WgfKr8JBLcqvLFkf5E31ZeVlOfg-8J-2cA3fneot74fkBEK8t87djjRmeZIPmMiQWDrkilhJaaYdY5SvYv500PwCacbQ5esVqjPCqVl3PdoDGUXmkB/s320/Rickman+portrait.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5222576491208595490" /></a><br /><br />Yes, he draws too. And he is numero uno on my lamintated list. Yes, I need to get a life, I admit it, but I've adored Alan Rickman since 1988 when Die Hard came out. He was such a sexy bad guy! But that's not all he does. He has played everything from romantic lead to comedy to actual persons living or dead. He's sung, danced, and worn prosthetic devices. And he's a serious activist for peace.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-90645874359744086002009-01-29T16:01:00.000-08:002009-01-29T16:03:30.217-08:00I have a job! YayI just got offered a job, no, not as the new Governor of Illinois, but with a River Cruise Company. I start Monday. My mortgage is all screwed up, but with a real income stream I think it will all work out in the long run.<br /><br />As for Blago, I am delighted to learn he can never, ever, ever hold public office in Illinois ever again. See what really bad hair can do for ya, Rod?DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com34tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-38851247087230579172009-01-22T12:09:00.000-08:002009-01-22T12:21:22.592-08:00More thoughts on Rick WarrenIn the film, Gran Torino, Clint Eastwood plays a man who is as racist and hate-filled as they come. He hates the Priest; he really hates his Hmong neighbors. He flings every possible epithet there is during the course of the film - it's really difficult to empathize with his character, except to see how his neighbors continue to include him and through that process of inclusion he is changed.<br /><br />In The Big Book Of Alcoholics Anonymous, there's a phrase that says "we are people who normally would not mix." But through the process of recovery and the inclusive nature of AA, we find ourselves embracing people with whom we disagree on other issues - and they become close friends.<br /><br />President Obama ran a campaign of inclusion - he embraces people with whom he disagrees, because he knows at the deepest level that only through intense dialogue can people be touched. Asking Rick Warren to give the Invocation is just such a moment - perhaps, with enough dialogue and exposure to various people he despises, Rick Warren can be changed and his heart can be opened. Even if just a little, it's a step in the right direction.<br /><br />I don't like Warren, nor his message of hate - I disagree with him on so many levels - but I would be a fool to close the door on dialogue. I've got friends who hate homosexuality, and voted for Prop 8. We disagreed. We discussed. We are still friends, and I am sorry for THEIR closed-mindedness. It is their loss to exclude people. I find my life is made richer by the inclusion of people who are completely different than I am. <br /><br />President Obama inherited a nation that is in deep trouble, courtesy of an administration that was filled with haters and people who excluded so many. But he is practicing a principle that we in AA must embrace and live by, which is to recognize we are all in the same boat and unless we put aside our differences and find a way to work together, we'll all sink in the same boat.<br /><br />I would like to think that this sort of attitude and behavior can have a positive effect on people like Pastor Warren. Apparently, Clint Eastwood thinks so too and showed it in Gran Torino.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-46401409925214433322009-01-20T18:57:00.000-08:002009-01-20T19:00:45.041-08:00President Obama's Inaugural Address<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWQK__KzOBBALdzF2KlmU4RZ2Q4ShZrnlL3dhDdwALnSJgUYTucQVUUfbItlaD1fQYQLIr0O8Tpwu46Q6jxLYHCn_t7-vKfCFxmJ9QxunCWR3Xr64P9fh6R1OK_CEcCqUdkA7z/s1600-h/Obama.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 135px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWQK__KzOBBALdzF2KlmU4RZ2Q4ShZrnlL3dhDdwALnSJgUYTucQVUUfbItlaD1fQYQLIr0O8Tpwu46Q6jxLYHCn_t7-vKfCFxmJ9QxunCWR3Xr64P9fh6R1OK_CEcCqUdkA7z/s320/Obama.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293576464912859458" /></a><br />"With hope and virtue", he quoted George Washington. "With hope and virtue," President Obama calls on us to honor and seek our higher selves to try to do better. Listening now to Rachel Maddow, waiting for MSNBC to go to the Balls, I'm thinking about the nature of President Obama's campaign as well as some of his controversial choices along the way.<br /><br />Mr. Obama is all about finding our similarities and building bridges. His focus has never been on our differences, but on all the wonderful ways we can connect with one another to create a better nation. He asks us to contribute our selves, our actions, to a greater good - a call to service our nation. Along the way, he embraces people who are Liberal and Conservative; he calls on women and men; Gay and Straight; White, Black, Brown, and everything in between; people of all Religious beliefs (or not). He embraces, and even when he disagrees he does it with respect for other ideas.<br /><br />This day has been a little surreal for me - I feel such joy and yes, pride again to be an American citizen. Mr. Obama, his administration, Congress, and all of us have a hard row to hoe ahead of us, yet I feel hope and virtue because I believe we can find our similarities.<br /><br />And this inclusive stance, for me, includes being able to listen to Rick Warren's invocation today - I don't agree with him on the issue of Gay Marriage - but it is his right to believe that marriage is between a man and a woman. Rather than attack him for his beliefs, I would rather discuss with him the necessity of keeping his religious views away from the legistation of marriage. I would prefer a dialogue rather than an outright dismissal of him and his message. Because as I listened to him, he was all about the absolute beauty of the moment - that this nation has finally elected an African American to the highest office of our nation. He emphasized the beginning of the end of racial division - and I appreciated that sentiment. <br /><br />Mr. Obama brings together so many different points of view because he believes in the necessity of listening to all ideas. How else can we learn, and get to understand each other if we don't listen and debate, and keep our hearts open? And our minds, open?<br /><br />Today, I feel hope in a most extraordinary way. Let's embrace the spirit of his message and move forward.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-40056760857591084642009-01-11T12:34:00.000-08:002009-01-11T12:42:57.455-08:00Coming up for airDear Gentle Readers - I apologize for being scarce. Really, for not being around at all. It's so easy to hide with Facebook, as there are games (Mob Wars, Scrabble) to distract - and that's what I do. <br /><br />Income has been scarce since I went independant, and finally I filed for Unemployment. It looked like I was going to lose my condo, but on 12/31, Countrywide sent me a re-worked deal that saves my home and I will be able to meet the mortgage payments. It's quite amazing, really. But in the meantime, I am trying to find a steady job to suppliment me while I try to build my business. <br /><br />I've never seen an economy this bad. It hasn't been this bad since the Depression, actually, and it hasn't bottomed yet. Nevertheless, I have hope for our future. Without hope, there's no reason to exist.<br /><br />It has been hard, really difficult and I won't pretend otherwise. The end result for me is that I tend to isolate and really circle the wagons. And I am grateful to all of you who check in from time to time - eventually I will be able to get back to this more regularly but right now, it's all I can do to just keep above ground. Please continue to check in; email works (jkblue AT cox DOT net is the email). Lots of love to you all.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com29tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-23851767353241499572008-12-06T10:17:00.000-08:002008-12-06T10:19:48.426-08:00Prop 8 - The Musical<object width="464" height="388" classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000"><param name="movie" value="http://player.ordienetworks.com/flash/fodplayer.swf" /><param name="flashvars" value="key=c0cf508ff8" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><embed width="464" height="388" flashvars="key=c0cf508ff8" allowfullscreen="true" quality="high" src="http://player.ordienetworks.com/flash/fodplayer.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></object><div style="text-align:center;width: 464px;">See more <a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/jackblack">Jack Black</a> videos at Funny or Die</div><br /><br />Credits: Conceived and Written (six weeks later than he shoulda) by-Marc Shaiman Directed and Staged by: Adam Shankman Produced by Adam Shankman, Marc Shaiman and Mike Farah Edited by Bradly Schulz and Drew Antzis Cast (in order of appearance) California Gays and The People That Love Them Jordan Ballard, Margaret Cho, Barrett Foa, J.B. Ghuman, John Hill, Andy Richter, Maya Rudolph, Rashad Naylor, Nicole Parker Proposition 8'ers and The People That Follow Them Prop 8 Leader- John C. Reilly Prop 8 Leader's #1 Wife- Allison Janney Prop 8 Leader's #2 Wife- Kathy Najimy Riffing Prop 8'er-Jenifer Lewis A Preacher- Craig Robinson Scary Catholic School Girls From Hell-Rashida Jones, Lake Bell, Sarah Chalke The Frightened Villagers Katharine "Kooks" Leonard, Seth Morris, Denise "Esi!" Piane, Lucian Piane, Richard Read, Seth Redford, Quinton Strack, Tate Taylor, Brunson Green Jesus Christ Jack Black A Very Smart Fellow Neil Patrick Harris Piano Player Marc "Marc" Shaiman ---- Co-Choreographer: Anne "Mama" Fletcher Recorded and Mixed by Frank Wolf & Greg Hayes Director of Photography: Michael Barrett Camera Operators: Jake Szymanski, Bradly Schulz and Drew Antzis Production designer: Nelson Coates Costume designer: Shanna Knecht Costume assistants: Leslie Schilling, Annalisa Adams, Elizabeth Abate Hair: Laura Sanchez Make-up: Shauna O'Toole, Atticuss Sharp Production sound: Bradford Craig Music editor: Lisa Jaime Music assistant: Brian Naguit Snacky: "Snacky" Special Thanks to Adam McKay for the nudgeDivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com28tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-71936824633485755122008-12-01T05:00:00.000-08:002008-12-01T05:00:00.795-08:00World AIDS Day<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_PY0GO9QvI-6fO4wobCZFzJE4HyVD9S_kANRzKRCTGqwh0FfLh7rEcZH_I_y8ngx_RlQ32j_PrS2BL0fDVRbRuoZCOCBFlUFNfYQ7P6l8YfC30s_E3OhC8gihOjCJPPvva_tx/s1600-h/aids+ribbon.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 262px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_PY0GO9QvI-6fO4wobCZFzJE4HyVD9S_kANRzKRCTGqwh0FfLh7rEcZH_I_y8ngx_RlQ32j_PrS2BL0fDVRbRuoZCOCBFlUFNfYQ7P6l8YfC30s_E3OhC8gihOjCJPPvva_tx/s320/aids+ribbon.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5274656849519886242" /></a><br /><br />Still in Chicago, still don't have much to say, but I could not let the 20th Anniversary of World AIDS Day go unmentioned. HIV/AIDS must be a priority on President-Elect Obama's agenda. This disease has not gone away, will not go away, unless there is a sincere focus on prevention, as well as treatment. A Vaccine is possible, and should have been found by now. HIV/AIDS does not target one specific group, or race, or religion. It is not gender-specific. This is everyone's responsibility, and we should all take action.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-36749111756889460292008-11-20T05:00:00.000-08:002008-11-20T05:00:02.409-08:00Old Naked Women For Peace<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/OINStsPwgQ4&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/OINStsPwgQ4&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br /><br /><a href="www.righteousmothers.com"target="_blank">sung by The Righteous Mothers</a><br /><br />Mind you, no bailout for the Auto Industry. The Dow falls below 8000. But what the hell, we can all take our clothes off for peace.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-50697933146106249522008-11-19T07:18:00.000-08:002008-11-19T07:32:40.705-08:00Visiting my Daughter and Beanie<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjK_XYSjyYG4zaDxOdFXCVxjKhga1l8BGq7eLYlsr-h0ldd7YuvuxVg7RoMK6SR1wdvW9WaNBG1EfirmPdPKgbJbrrExL-SzoTnzLa0VLzjhqndJ4rfVLV5LyTYDEFRS452WRM1/s1600-h/Mom,+Dorth+2.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjK_XYSjyYG4zaDxOdFXCVxjKhga1l8BGq7eLYlsr-h0ldd7YuvuxVg7RoMK6SR1wdvW9WaNBG1EfirmPdPKgbJbrrExL-SzoTnzLa0VLzjhqndJ4rfVLV5LyTYDEFRS452WRM1/s320/Mom,+Dorth+2.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270389514711166146" /></a><br /><br />The Secretary of Strawberries loves The Wizard of Oz - the movie. She can sort of sing all the songs (Weoff tsee dizard unerfoo izardoz; Dindon thitch is ded itchoitch titchoitch) you get the picture. She looks at me as her best friend - and we play so well together. So all my worries seem insignificant when I am with Beanie.<br /><br />Meanwhile, there are realities: the person who'd agreed to be my backup financial support as I build my business has conveniently forgotten the amount agreed upon. This presents a significant problem for me, as I have almost no income at the moment - two months behind on mortgage payments, late to the point of default on two credit cards, late on my health insurance, two months late on car insurance - on and on. And I'm not alone in this - so many people are suffering, everyone in the Travel business is experiencing the normal slow season woes, but this is worse. Some agencies are closing their doors. Restaurants are suffering. House sales are down as people can't afford to sell (let alone buy). Will I be able to do something to avoid foreclosure? I don't know. <br /><br />I have business - I have clients who are traveling, booking trips, but they are not going until March, April, May, June, July -- all future travel, and I will not be paid until they travel. It is foolish to give up hope, but I am looking for a job, to supplement while I build my own independent business. Fear? Yes. Despair? Not yet.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com23tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-18788074604273266332008-11-17T06:03:00.001-08:002008-11-17T06:28:56.587-08:00Just Like Marie Antoinette<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizKiHLdC53FVrSi6Lzre9aY1FiBuALFTHJ4DWbH3AWabnsrQA94cCIiymgVJPcw5AQ78F9WyGN9gui08meAOxAd4M8odPhPSA0FW1OeqfQvTmoTcBNaTr0t_d0Z4ez-5Af5JCx/s1600-h/marieantonette.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 144px; height: 187px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizKiHLdC53FVrSi6Lzre9aY1FiBuALFTHJ4DWbH3AWabnsrQA94cCIiymgVJPcw5AQ78F9WyGN9gui08meAOxAd4M8odPhPSA0FW1OeqfQvTmoTcBNaTr0t_d0Z4ez-5Af5JCx/s320/marieantonette.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5269627176571122050" /></a><br /><br />My dear <a href="http://utahsavage.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Utah Savage</a> is passing around the love once again. This image of Marie Antoinette is intended to go to bloggers who have something to say, who tell the truth. And yet, she chose to include me. Hey, I ran for Diva President and lost. Utah was to be Big Chief Supreme, but now we have to look at another administration. Oh, well. Sometimes, the only solution is to laugh. When it hurts too much to cry, all that's left is laughter. That's where I am these days.<br /><br />At any rate, we are to pass this on to others who tell the truth. So I'm gonna do that as well.<br /><br />1. The wonderful <a href="http://borderexplorer.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Border Explorer</a> is a real blogger. I adore her. She gets it.<br /><br />2. <a href="http://festinalente-franiam.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">FranIAm</a> is a real blogger. I adore her too. She gets it.<br /><br />3. <a href="http://hihidi.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Dianne, Forks Off The Moment</a> is another real blogger. I adore her. SHE gets it too!<br /><br />4. <a href="http://thepagansphinx.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">The Pagan Sphinx</a> really gets it. I adore her. She's a real blogger.<br /><br />5. <a href="http://pursey.typepad.com/the_life_and_times_of_dic/"target="_blank">Pursey Tuttweiler</a> because SHE gets it. I adore her. She's another real blogger.<br /><br />Today is Gordon Lightfoot's 70th Birthday. Yikes. AndDivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-80676453614207368022008-11-13T08:51:00.000-08:002008-11-13T09:00:57.903-08:00When did our priorities get so skewed?<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/13/business/13retired.html?_r=1&th&emc=th&oref=slogin"target="_blank">"People are grieving. There was a death. Their money died." BARBARA GOLDSMITH, a semiretired psychotherapist in Delray Beach, Fla.</a><br /><br />Bye, Bye, the American Pie<br />Drove my Lexus to the Bank<br />But the Bank was dry<br />Those AIG Boys are drinking<br />Champagne and Rye<br />And This will be the day <br />That I tear my hair out in frustration.<br /><br />What happened to our values that we grieve money over all else? I look around at new housing developments - all "Luxury Homes", rather than affordable housing. All for the uber-wealthy. Good people are struggling horribly, and <a href="http://www.breakthebailout.com/node/3"target="_blank">AIG throws a party for the top Executives with some of their share.</a> <br /><br />Really, I am a natural blonde, going grey. Somebody explain this to me, because I am really too pissed off to make sense.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-17859060374987485142008-11-12T08:48:00.000-08:002008-11-12T09:17:32.018-08:00Where is my bailout?<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/12/business/economy/12lobbying.html?_r=1&th&emc=th&oref=slogin"target="_blank">I believe I am as deserving of a bailout as anayone.</a> What do I have to do? Be <a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/news/business/companies/american_international_group/index.html?inline=nyt-org"target="_blank">AIG</a> or <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/12/washington/12cong.html?th&emc=th"target="_blank">build motor cars</a> or <a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/news/business/companies/allstate_corporation/index.html?inline=nyt-org"target="_blank">something?</a> <br /><br />The terms of the bailout are sort of limited to “qualifying U.S. banks, savings associations, and certain bank and savings and loan holding companies, engaged only in financial activities.” But since the $700B bailout package is now down to $60, Karl Rove's former boy <a href="http://gawker.com/5083864/hot-cowboy-denies-naughty-bailout-requests"target="_blank">Jeb Mason</a> gets to pick and choose which companies he'll approve or whack. They include automakers, banks, S&Ls, cheesemakers, <a href="http://www.fool.com/investing/value/2008/11/11/american-express-isnt-taking-any-chances.aspx"target="_blank">Credit Card companies</a> and they all get in line and beg at the hand that may or may not feed them.<br /><br />And if the government runs out of money? No worries. Jeb's got a printing press and they can just print more.<br /><br />I need an official lobbyist to go get me a piece of that pie. I work hard, I know my business, and I want to keep my home. So there.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-67591073891336882222008-11-11T09:52:00.000-08:002008-11-11T12:46:02.154-08:00November 4thIt never ceases to amaze me how a date on the calendar can take on so much significance for an individual. I was married on November 4th, 1969, in a suburb of Tel Aviv Israel. My parents had flown over for the event - I was four days after my 21st birthday and still a baby in so many respects. My mother, who would be a story in and of herself, was distraught. She didn't like my intended one bit, and she made it known any way she could. One moment in particular stands out: we were walking to a restaurant in the old city of Jaffa, all cobblestone streets and Yemenite restaurants - and she flung herself to the ground and said she'd tripped. My dad, my intended, and I had all seen it - she hadn't tripped, she truly flung herself - tossed her purse, then collapsed. It was almost funny.<br /><br />But November 4th came, and we married, and I was so afraid. I went literally from my parents' house to my husband's house, and that was no longer on Kibbutz. We lived in a neighborhood outside of Tel Aviv that was made up of Iranian Jews, a slum, where kids routinely shoved live rats into milk bottles. They didn't like me, they called me "Blondini from Romania" - and would toss mud at my wash hung out on the balcony to dry. They knew I was afraid. And I had no voice. I grew up without a voice, swallowed by family events.<br /><br />So we moved back to the States. Back to Illinois, to a suburb of Chicago, and I became involved in Political Organizing, for <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abner_J._Mikva"target="_blank">Abner J. Mikva.</a> Mr. Mikva was both a great lawyer, and a great politician - a rarity I've not seen since until Barack Obama. I began to speak. I began to believe I had a point of view, and began to find my voice. <br /><br />Fast forward a few years: November 4, 1980. It was my 11th Wedding Anniversary. We were at dinner, perfectly miserable, as we already new the results of the election - Ronald Reagan <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_presidential_election,_1980"target="_blank">had just demolished</a> President Carter in the Presidential election by almost 10 percentage points. It was a disaster of epic proportions as the Reagan Revolution moved forward. <br /><br />November 4, 2008 - I voted first thing, for Barack Obama, and at 11 AM, got the call that my Aunt Jo had died, 93 years of age. Turns out that my cousin had not been able to turn in Joey's absentee ballot (Joey was voting for McCain, and no on Prop 8- how weird is that) - but there you have it. <br /><br />Since Joey died, though, I've not felt like doing anything. It was exposure to family, all the good and all the bad. I'm struggling financially right now - business is down for several reasons (not the least of which is that it is "slow season" until after mid-January - Fran knows this, she's in my industry) - but also because of the economy. I had been working for three months with a client on three cabins on a luxury cruise when he decided not to travel. Huge booking lost, and I'm worried. I'm 1 1/2 months behind on mortgage; late on car and health insurance; behind on credit cards; behind on everything; new medical bills because deductible was so high. After I return from Chicago I will be looking for part time work so I can get benefits (Walgreens, Starbucks, Borders, and I think Home Depot all pay benefits if you work 20 hours) and extra income while I make my business work.<br /><br />But it's the other part of this: the emotional part. My dad was one of 7, and they are all dead now. My mother was one of 10, and there is only one still living but she's not been with us mentally for years. Both my mother's and father's families had challenging and colorful histories - my paternal grandmother used to tell us stories of how her mother would hide her and her siblings during <a href="http://www.ushmm.org/wlc/article.php?ModuleId=10005183"target="_blank">pogroms</a> by burying them in shallow "graves" with straw for air. My mother, while pregnant with me, was babysitting my cousins when one died from pneumonia. My mother was blamed for the death, and she became incapable of loving me. She was hard on everyone, but as her behavior in Israel shows, she was mentally unstable and incapable of real rational thought or action.<br /><br />There's more - so much more. My Aunt Jo was married to one of the most destructive, evil people I've ever encountered. He was a monster. And when he appeared at the funeral, he was kept hidden from the family by a curtained-off area. He came to the gravesite briefly, but was shoved away. Still, even that brief encounter, and I lose my voice. I swallow it. My cousin, while eulogizing his mother, spoke directly to each cousin who was there - and when he got to me, he referenced how hard my mother had been on Joey. She was hard on Joey, she wanted her to leave the monster. But, but. I found myself shrinking. <br /><br />Joey died four days after my 60th birthday. She never missed a birthday, and when I visited her in the hospital on Sunday to say goodbye, she made sure I'd gotten her card. She asked about my cat, Mr. Bean. She was all love, tolerance, forgiveness. She felt mentally young and physically exhausted. And I get it. I feel mentally and emotionally like a child, and physically exhausted. <br /><br />Yesterday I called my ex-husband to wish him a happy birthday. We chatted about Obama's victory and what it might mean for all of us. This is the guy who said he finally got the chance to vote for Bobby Kennedy. Maybe, in time, I will feel the joy I know I should. Today, not so much.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-80844594013747266082008-11-10T16:35:00.001-08:002008-11-10T17:09:51.154-08:00Thank you, Utah!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhR_7aIORY5SjVnCFGRcq_5J9CcnzvcJ3XZgq5qCZoJPXaMSnq0hYAwspHD-orHyTzJeT2eCEueU851sF4NAgmHWRWDk8-cYN8ukNN7XgLgZ9_lu1D38kxzKR0mm0v7vWYO4jMW/s1600-h/superior-scribbler-award.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 144px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhR_7aIORY5SjVnCFGRcq_5J9CcnzvcJ3XZgq5qCZoJPXaMSnq0hYAwspHD-orHyTzJeT2eCEueU851sF4NAgmHWRWDk8-cYN8ukNN7XgLgZ9_lu1D38kxzKR0mm0v7vWYO4jMW/s320/superior-scribbler-award.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267192342761875698" /></a><br /><br /><br /><a href="http://utahsavage.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Utah Savage,</a> one of the most colorful bloggers I know and my friend and sister traveler, has awarded me this gem, the Scribbler Award. It comes at a time when I've been feeling really silent again - my Aunt Joey's passing has really made me reflective and quiet - and so Utah's gesture means more than I can fully express. In the face of my family, I feel like my voice gets swallowed. But apparently, others don't think so and Utah could not have timed this better.<br /><br />But there are rules. I hate rules. It's one of the things I don't do well. Rules, and singing. Nevertheless, here they are:<br /><br />*Each Superior Scribbler must in turn pass The Award on to 5 most-deserving Bloggy Friends. <br />*Each Superior Scribbler must link to the author & the name of the blog from whom he/she has received The Award. <br />* Each Superior Scribbler must display The Award on his/her blog, and link to <a href="http://scholastic-scribe.blogspot.com/2008/10/200-this-blings-for-you.html"target="_blank">This Post</a>, which explains The Award. <br />* Each Blogger who wins The Superior Scribbler Award must visit this post and add his/her name to the Mr. Linky List. That way, we'll be able to keep up-to-date on everyone who receives This Prestigious Honor! <br />*Each Superior Scribbler must post these rules on his/her blog.<br /><br />So, my blog roll is long. All the people on it are amazing writers, so picking five is a real challenge. However, I'm going to give it a go:<br /><br />1. <a href="http://borderexplorer.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Border Explorer</a> never ceases to amaze me with her unceasing dedication to human rights and justice. She's just brilliant and tireless, and I adore her. Plus she keeps me in farm animals at Facebook.<br /><br />2. <a href="http://thailandgal.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">ThailandChani of Finding My Way Home</a> writes about mindfulness - it is an exquisite blog. It's a peaceful blog.<br /><br />3. <a href="http://thewoundedbird.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Grandmere Mimi of Wounded Bird</a> is someone I've just started reading. She's quite entertaining, and interesting, and covers a variety of topics. Sometimes, with irony.<br /><br />4. I love <a href="http://mathman6293.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Mathman, of When Will I Use This?</a> Sorry DCup, I don't mean it as anything more than motherly love. Besides, he's a White Sox fan. I forgive him that, because he is a real educator. A real one. Not a faux educator, but someone who takes it to heart.<br /><br />5. And <a href="http://distributorcapny.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Distributorcap New York</a> is always thoughtful and entertaining. He covers politics, Constitutional law, and humor, and I love his blog.<br /><br />I also would tag <a href="http://lennui-melodieux.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Randal</a> and several others, but they've been gotten already. So go forth, read something. It's good.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-28332597194055300452008-11-07T08:22:00.001-08:002008-11-07T08:38:24.927-08:00A Message from the (presumed) Secretary of Strawberries<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOn7pGrQCVnzsuralilXslTbeO2MZb6SsR6QlwHyQpV_waqxyhN-fy2hJpSP5t_jzbBKH1ie_ISelChyphenhyphenn4gnFwVyDXa9iY1fLbpR1KkWApF9rmrkcZb_lwWRg66MPjKmkbIJqX/s1600-h/ellie+misc.+and+mr.+bean+090.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOn7pGrQCVnzsuralilXslTbeO2MZb6SsR6QlwHyQpV_waqxyhN-fy2hJpSP5t_jzbBKH1ie_ISelChyphenhyphenn4gnFwVyDXa9iY1fLbpR1KkWApF9rmrkcZb_lwWRg66MPjKmkbIJqX/s320/ellie+misc.+and+mr.+bean+090.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5265953167842406786" /></a><br /><br />So but I waiting for a call from ether Presinet-elec Obama or his Cheefsaff Rammanul, <del>telling</del> asking me to be Secretary of Strawberries an Cream an such even tho my gramma din't win the lecshun. She voted for Obama insted of herself but she paid he Campaign Manger <a href="http://lennui-melodieux.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">Randal</a> six times nuthin slavery. An she thanks everbody who sported her campaign wich wasn't too many but thanks anyways.<br /><br />We like Rammanul, he blongs to the same <del>singog</del> temple as my cuson David and he went to the same <a href="http://www.bzaeds.org/home"target="_blank">skool</a> as my mommy an my unka Aman went to only not at the same time. Coz he's older than my mommy and unka Aman. <br /><br />So this in'sit a dreem we all gonna wake up from an say oops. Barack Obama is reely the new Presinet-elec an we be done soon with the Bush.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-48681850242103764492008-11-06T08:23:00.001-08:002008-11-06T08:57:16.782-08:00Blog for Peace<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqh1rZYRonoDsDw9qUbIgqjwKtgF64yuSE0PzSF8QvihmnN6H67MUyKKavgCJFak6mGZcf9d_kOqYdHldCAmDumEjqToGuQF629M0HWi91HlvgZbs0YyT-JMqsiVQbtiM7uKXX/s1600-h/PeacePuzzle.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 252px; height: 252px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqh1rZYRonoDsDw9qUbIgqjwKtgF64yuSE0PzSF8QvihmnN6H67MUyKKavgCJFak6mGZcf9d_kOqYdHldCAmDumEjqToGuQF629M0HWi91HlvgZbs0YyT-JMqsiVQbtiM7uKXX/s320/PeacePuzzle.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5265589469734984034" /></a><br />Today is the day: the <a href="http://peaceglobegallery.blogspot.com/"target="_blank">2nd anniversary of BlogBlast For Peace.</a> <br /><br />For reasons beyond me, Blogger won't let me upload my peace globe - but you can see all the others at the above link. I made my peace globe using a program that Blogger doesn't seem to like.<br /><br />Let me just say this: I feel hopeful for the first time in seven years. I believe that the USA can once again become a beacon for peace. We can send that energy out to the world. We can be the change we want to see in the world.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10048624.post-42933040627774153872008-11-05T08:29:00.000-08:002008-11-05T08:45:17.754-08:00A New DawnI have never been so proud to be an American than I am this morning. Yesterday, a massive change happened and we moved from being a nation afraid to a nation that believes again in our ideas. It was a massive generational change as well. Those of us who grew up in the '60s are so aware of the significance of this election: a Black man as President, a Black family in the White House - built by Slave Labor - and we can hope that this ends Racism. Those who are the ages of my daughter and son see it differently. They grew up differently than I did, with friends of all races and nationalities and so to them, it was a choice of age, ideas, demeanor, and style. I voted for Barack Obama for those reasons as well, but I also saw the historical significance and I shed tears when I vote. I voted with pride, with hope, with fear - and waited.<br /><br />So at 8 PM last night, in Los Angeles, when Keith Olbermann made the announcement, I cried with joy. My friend Peggy (the former Republican) called me crying. I called my daughter, crying. My friend Nancy was in Grant Park, in the second row from the Podium, and she called several times. My friend Teri called me, in tears, thrilled. It was an enormous decision, and we are proud.<br /><br />John McCain's concession speech was gracious, generous, and real. I was finally proud of John McCain in defeat. He spoke as a real patriot, a real American who will work with Obama.<br /><br />My ex-husband told my daughter (with tears in his eyes) that he finally got to vote for Bobby Kennedy!<br /><br />Jesse Jackson's face said it all.<br /><br />And I slept soundly for the first time since 9/11/2001. I felt safe, for the first time since 9/11/2001.DivaJoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534571327558009753noreply@blogger.com22